not liking arseholes

A lack of honesty and clarity of thought is an issue that we must face bravely throughout the writing of any inventory.

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if i can please you

Lazy inventory-taking and categorisation is often thrown about carelessly in conversation by people who don’t know what they’re talking about or what the label they’re using so easily might actually mean. “People-pleasing” is one such phrase often abused.

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a vibrant and energetic youth

Much of my youth – though vibrant and energetic and eventful and passionate – was marred by a stubborn inflexibility, a self-centeredness, insensitivity, and immaturity. Recognising and accepting that this was true has been a vitally important part of the process of growth.

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